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I've been doing a tumblr contest for the past couple of months, where if people reblog a post about my book, they can win a signed copy of the book. It's gotten about 30 entries and it resets every month, so there have been a couple of winners, which is fun. I know a lot of people don't have a tumblr, though, and I get a lot more hits here - so I've been thinking of doing something similar on lj. Sharing a description and image of the book that I make easy to copy (with contest explanation, you don't have to pretend to parrot my information for fun :p) would count as an entry. It could be on your facebook, twitter, your own lj/other external blog, tumblr would still count - as long as it's some established place that you have that is not just made up and blank for the purpose of the contest. You'd have to let me know you shared it, either in the comments or in my email, to enter.

[Poll #1919205]

#ETA: You can leave your answer in the comments if you don't have an LJ. I wasn't thinking of how non-LJ'ers can't participate in polls.




I've had the shittiest most terrible double ear infection. The most painful, throbbing, fuzzy headed, muffled hearing lot of swelling. The whole right side of my tongue (closest to the worst ear) has been shredded from my TEETH being shoved over. I've been sleeping with the help of hydrocodone and exhaustion - and hydrocodone takes like three Arrested Developments one and a half Game of Thrones an hour and a half to kick in.

Anyway, it's finally going away, and while I'm grateful this hasn't happened in a few years, the steady ringing sound constantly reminds me of my deepening hearing loss and really...it's not cool. I don't know how I got so comfortable with so much soft dairy again (the runnier and more frequent, the worst, seems to be the case with me, in terms of consequences...) but it's basically come down to "do I want a frappuccino or do I want to be able to hear people talking to me, listen to music, and otherwise experience reality through one of my only five mechanisms to do so?"

*sigh* These are the thoughts of someone sitting still with their head turned sideways and drops in their swollen ears, as small people run past on mute.




I've bought a lot of books, in the past couple of days. For school, I got my Summer B textbooks - "Theories of Personality" and "Intro to Social Psych". I won't bore you with the gouging agony of what they cost. I will say that I was so pissed that the DSM-5 was $200 at my FIU's Barnes & Noble that I opted out and instead went with, "The Book of Woe - The DSM and the Unmaking of Pyschiatry." Which I've already read 2 chapters of as my cold, cold ear drops gradually sink down into the center of my tortured noggin'. When I relayed that information at home, however, Grant said the government is giving me a lot of money for my education, which more or less requires that book, and Amazon said they would send it to me for "only" $118. So I got it from them, along with (for continued balance in perspective), "Saving Normal: An Insider's Revolt Against Out-of-Control Psychiatric Diagnosis, DSM-5, Big Pharma, and the Medicalization of Ordinary Life."

Because Amazon offers that tantalizing, "buy new and used from ____" option, and I DO have government education money, I also got "Toxic Psychiatry: Why Therapy, Empathy and Love Must Replace the Drugs, Electroshock, and Biochemical Theories of the 'New Psychiatry'" and, in neuroplasticity, "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One." Along with replacing my old copies (loned out and lost forever) of "Neuroplasticity: The Brain's Ability to Change Itself," and "Prozac Diary" (literary nonfiction by one of my favorites, Lauren Slater).

All of them together add up to about what I would have paid for just the DSM at school, which ties into this whole issue I have as a bibliophile and author about people (like me) buying these bargain basement priced used books - I don't think it's as "bad" as just torrenting and illegally downloading ebooks (which I never do), but it's clearly doing nothing for writers and little for the industry. Sort of. I mean I guess it gets writers read, and keeps used book merchants in business, both of which I see value in. I DIGRESS (<---What a surprise).




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Links of the Day!

Link 1.) NPR discusses the nearly complete absence of women from movies. "I want to stress this again: In many, many parts of the country right now, if you want to go to see a movie in the theater and see a current movie about a woman — any story about any woman that isn't a documentary or a cartoon — you can't. You cannot. There are not any. You cannot take yourself to one, take your friend to one, take your daughter to one.

There are not any.

...Dudes in capes, dudes in cars, dudes in space, dudes drinking, dudes smoking, dudes doing magic tricks, dudes being funny, dudes being dramatic, dudes flying through the air, dudes blowing up, dudes getting killed, dudes saving and kissing women and children, and dudes glowering at each other."

I wrote about this here two years ago, in this post, saying all this )

Link 2.) http://www.michelecarragherembroidery.com/ The woman who hand embroiders the costumes for Game of Thrones. This is mind blowing stuff! I love fabric ♥

Link 3.) Florida: Black Woman Gets 20 Years for Firing Warning Shot - White Man Kills and Goes Free The title kinda says it all, unfortunately.

Link 4.) Florida: 17 year old girl who has been in a consensual relationship for a year or more with another, 15 year old girl who was on the varsity basketball team with her, gets into serious legal trouble the minute she turns 18 and the younger girl's parents have legal recourse. Younger girl's parents are deeply homophobic and claim the older girl is turning their daughter gay. Now this honor student, who is active in her community, is facing lifelong sexual predator status, multiple felonies...it's crazy. That link is to the change.org petition that over 300,000 people have already signed, asking that the case against her be dropped and the laws re-examined.
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We've shamelessly browsed and bought our way through antique stores; Bed, Bath and Beyond; Publix and Marshall's in the past two days. I am thrilled and probably far too satisfied by both the things we've acquired and the bargains we've found. A lot of it is very practical "we just bought a home" stuff - some is shockingly perfect advance Christmas gifting that will go into a closet for months, and then there is this - CHOCOLATE PASTA. Except we only paid $3.00 for it :D

There's a big ol' tropical storm that might have been more, so we're all in Hurricane Mode - the gas stations and hardware stores have been madhouses, we have far too many non-perishables, the plants from outside are cluttering up the place. Probably my dad will be very disgruntled that all his cab customers were evacuated out of the keys for this lot of nothing. Sitting around the house too much I've found some interesting tidbits on the computer today for the first time in awhile - like, this quote:

"... behind each face there is a hidden world that no one else can see.
Each life is a narrative that remains mostly hidden. This is why it’s
so difficult to be human: you live in two worlds - the outer world of name,
family, address and role; and the inner world which is profoundly
nameless, where no one else can enter, and which remains intimate
though unknown, largely, to you...."


~ Writer, priest and poet John O’Donoghue,
from a sermon given in 2002

And, apparently school teachers in Texas are now allowed to carry guns? Wow, that's all I can think to say. Wow. Texas, I swear.

I thought some of you might be interested in hearing that my neurology feed is reporting a link between a particular gene abnormality, and bipolar disorder. It's also implicating calcium and sodium imbalances as causing manic episodes. Now, everything that pops up on this feed is REALLY new, usually the result of a single study or even theorized, but it's all legitimate - read more here, if you like:
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/118525.php

I suppose I'll go back to reading to the kids now. I was afraid of how The Goblet of Fire would be for them, and remember purposely putting it off when they were 5 and 6. But, well, it was great. We just read the graveyard scenes in the middle of the afternoon, and all at once to get them out of the way. When Dumbledore was telling Harry he needed to tell them all what happened even though it was hard, because it would just get worse if he didn't, Aaron was like, "Oh, like the sadness would stay in his body because he didn't get it out. Then he'd probably need counseling." :p Anyway, yeah, I tried to sway them back to Narnia or Rowan of Rin but they were both passionately eager for Order of the Phoenix and it really gets me, how much more they LAUGH at these books then I did/do. Like the second chapter, that we just read awhile ago, it has the Dursley's and Harry arguing in the kitchen and owls keep swooping in and interrupting and everytime they do, Uncle Vernon gets So. MAD. Well, it's amusing, but I couldn't help but laugh til I was crying because my kids were in belly-clutching hysterics everytime it happened again. Aaron was also about to pee himself everytime Vernon called dementors demembers or dementies, and "Lord Voldything" had them both going, too. I even look forward to Quidditch scenes now, which was definitely NOT the case during my own reading.
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a 12x16 print:


an 8x10 fabric block:


a 24x36 oil painting on canvas:



And I have not won, but am bidding on, this:

3 originally painted mermaids on pages of Hamlet (Ophelia! Mermaids!). 5x8 inch paperback pages. Some artist named Cramolini who makes a lot of wild claims about themself did this...I'm really loving it more the more I look. I'll frame them side by side if I win, and I really hope I do...


Also, I bought Ananda an Alice in Wonderland mug for her birthday months ago, right after we went together to that "Alice in Wonderland Tea Ettiquette" thing, at the bookstore. She was thrilled about it, and then last night Aaron (unintentionally) broke it. So I was looking around ebay for similar things thinking maybe I could replace it for her, and found out it was part of this giant collection of Alice in Wonderland dishes and tea things and trays and all sorts of crap, by Paul Cardew. I'm really, really intrigued O_o I mean, who DOESN'T need dessert plates that say, "Alice soon made out that she was in a pool of tears which she had wept when she was nine feet high"? I suddenly have visions of myself as some sort of collector that has eleventy billion pieces of this stuff that get passed down to my children when I die. Like new bits will be what I'm getting for Christmas for the rest of my life, and whenever something gets broken my children go to drastic lengths to hide the evidence or glue things into a ruse.

For now, I have a LOT of cleaning to do and some white bean and chicken chili to make, before Laura arrives in a couple of hours to watch my kids while I go to the therapist.
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So, I ended up returning the rainboots I ordered as part of a late night, sleep-deprived episode, even though they were a little bit awesome. They also weren't what I expected, and I'm (droning tone of horrible practicality) Not Sure I Would Ever Wear Them. For people who were not aware, some big name designer was making "fashion rainboots" and Target launched a knockoff line on what appears to be the website only. Dozens of styles. You want houndstooth, tye dye, striped or polka dot rainboots? Punked out or asian looking? They tantalize me, truly, and if I were still in high school I think I would NEED 3 or 4 different pairs - plus I'd have nothing else to spend the money from my part time job on. As it is, I can pass this link on and tell the rest of you to view them here - really, behold the glory that torments me. Oh, copious money to burn on dumb shit, how you elude me.

Returning them in store earned me a $21 giftcard to go shop online again with, and at Target you can *do something* with $21, and there I was shopping for myself again. Now I'm waiting for a kickass bag (I'm never going to start liking the word "purse") AND the earrings from my previous order that I was warned would take weeks. I'm starting to feel WAY too much like this chick**. Packages, how I love thee.




Grant and Shaun were filming over the weekend. They made two short videos that I think are pretty damned hilarious. My sense of humor is off key, though. I'm like a piano that's fallen down stairs where funny is concerned.

Project #1 -



Project #2 -



My personal critique goes;
-the first one should be a tiny bit shorter
-it should be easier to find when you search youtube for "pogo tricks"
-the second one should be black and white
-Shaun, you weren't obvious enough about being freaked out that people stole your stuff, or that your stuff was being stolen. I only understood what was going on there because I heard you talking about it beforehand - the fact that it's all you also makes it seem confusing. The "thieves" should sneak around in an obvious way and you should be more obviously exasperated...Exaggerated movements, it's pantomime!
-I don't like the hoohaw at the end with the words. And you said, "and" where you should have said "an"

But, again, I still laugh riotously about it all.

If anyone is looking for some slightly more professional and more mainstream humor on YouTube, I think this pretty much rocks -


There's a sequel that's similarly entertaining here - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGrTvNzGCZE

Speaking of pianos being dropped down stairs, we watched the movie, "The Science of Sleep" Sunday night. I think it was worthwhile for watching. It was funny and interesting and unique and NOT Hollywood, even though it was also one of Those Movies that goes along art house quirky until it just stops, without any real resolution...I'm still glad I saw it.

**fixed that link

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