Life's been good to me so far

I'm wondering if you could elaborate on what you mean by "school kid behavior issues...". I was homeschooled myself, though only for the last several years of high school, my brother from a much younger age and for most of his schooling. My own child is now in public school and sometimes I wonder if certain behaviors are just a stage that I don't remember going through myself, given that she's still very young and I don't recall every single thing from when I was six or so, or if they're things that she's picking up specifically from a school environment and a community of peers, etc. How do you know if it's Elise's school/peers doing it, or if it's just Elise, in other words? (I mean, aside from taught things like gender roles, if she's suddenly spouting beliefs different from what she's taught at home.)