I don't think that at 2:30AM I can come up with anything more coherently and sensitively written than the above messages to you, but wanted to add hug from another mom with mixed feelings on the whole thing. I've had vag. births but lots of m/c, so I get the whole bittersweet thing. It doesn't mean you love your niece any less, though, and it's wonderful that your sister and her partner are able to understand that.
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Date: 2010-01-02 07:26 am (UTC)