Ok, so, I feel terrible for leaving you hanging! I keep wanting to just get back around to answering someone else's comment as a post and putting up some pictures I'd planned to around New Years...
I was mostly wondering how the tumors effect your day to day life, if at all, and what your prognosis is.
I am ok with talking here, or anywhere. I am REALLY BAD about answering texts immediately...or 3 days later...or maybe never :/ And the same with emails. I just have a lot going on right now, which sucks because although it gets in the way of my forming new (or nurturing existing) friendships...I'm also REALLY LONELY a lot of the time. So...people who understand my delayed and intermittent replies are truly priceless, and I periodically end up in fabulous extended conversations with them (and then nothing from either end for months...) But - to be brutally honest, and please don't take it personally because I mean it in a very generalized way - trying to attend to people who take delays personally or interpret them badly feels like an additional burden and I just can't, lately. The best is when someone else is also sometimes right there and sometimes nowhere to be found, and loves having a mutual understanding about that, and so nobody is ever offended and both of us can feel free to send 25 messages knowing they'll be read eventually, or just go to sleep even though our phone's going nuts because we're REALLY tired.
^That is my very direct way of laying out what (especially long distance) communication with me is like, these days, so that you can decide whether or not it works for you :)
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I was mostly wondering how the tumors effect your day to day life, if at all, and what your prognosis is.
I am ok with talking here, or anywhere. I am REALLY BAD about answering texts immediately...or 3 days later...or maybe never :/ And the same with emails. I just have a lot going on right now, which sucks because although it gets in the way of my forming new (or nurturing existing) friendships...I'm also REALLY LONELY a lot of the time. So...people who understand my delayed and intermittent replies are truly priceless, and I periodically end up in fabulous extended conversations with them (and then nothing from either end for months...) But - to be brutally honest, and please don't take it personally because I mean it in a very generalized way - trying to attend to people who take delays personally or interpret them badly feels like an additional burden and I just can't, lately. The best is when someone else is also sometimes right there and sometimes nowhere to be found, and loves having a mutual understanding about that, and so nobody is ever offended and both of us can feel free to send 25 messages knowing they'll be read eventually, or just go to sleep even though our phone's going nuts because we're REALLY tired.
^That is my very direct way of laying out what (especially long distance) communication with me is like, these days, so that you can decide whether or not it works for you :)