Jake's actually had ribs showing during some periods of his life. And I've been pretty careful about never telling any of them anything about cleaning a plate. I do worry that he's gotten into a habit of eating this way that's not always related to hunger, though.

That's a great second paragraph for me to think about. I've been in such a mindset of oatmeal being one of a few "perfect foods" for us (because it's cheap, customizable, filling, everyone loves it, and it's healthy!) for so long. But I know that my own ideas about my personal health are definitely shifting further from grains every day.