Believe me, this has crossed my mind roughly a million times. Some of it seems like "Is BDSM some weird twisting blasphemy of religion, like warping our natural inclination to go to God and turning it into kink?" like with how Catholics spend a lot of time on their knees, and Priests put the communion in peoples' mouths....and some of it seems like "to what degree have Catholics through the centuries been fighting their natural BDSM tendencies and calling it religion??!" like with saints whipping themselves and nuns beating kids and this general pecking order of ring kissing and subservience.

From my limited experiences with Jews, I think Christianity on the whole is sometimes a much more EMOTIONAL faith than Judaism seems to be?