They are quite well documented, they do definitely need to be gotten out there, and yet they ARE quite harsh if you are listening through my ears. I would loved to have heard things like this before I had a first child.

I didn't say I didn't want her holding her talks; I just would've liked to have had better warning about what I was attending. And/or completely different birth experiences so I could nod along sagely without it ripping my heart out.