omg--- when we go grocery shopping with my dad each week, he takes Emily and I go by myself. he lets her eat the grapes right out of the bag (I think that is so wrong-- not to mention that she has a dirt ring around her mouth when we leave) and will open all sorts of snacks for them to eat. I don't care about the unweighed stuff but I hate when he lets her eat the grapes-- I feel like she is stealing.